Have you ever wondered why we receive the messages we do
from our politicians and what, if anything, determines the contents and timing
of communications like Saturday’s email from Congresswoman
Lowey?
If you live in NY’s
18th Congressional District you may have received an email from
Congresswoman Nita Lowey Saturday reminding us of the Congresswoman’s support
for the Respect
for Marriage Act, how much she enjoyed meeting with and looks forward to
meeting more LGBT people and how discrimination and bullying have no place in
our 18th District.
Notice she specifically highlights her support for anti-bullying
efforts. I’ve included a copy of the
note from Congresswoman Lowey below.
So why did Congresswoman Lowey send this particular note on
this particular Saturday and why choose to highlight support for bills that
have been languishing in Congress for some time and for which her support has
been previously announced and is well known.
And most of all, why would a politician feel it necessary to
draw specific attention to the fact they support anti-bullying
initiatives? Would you not assume
Democratic Congresswoman Nita Lowey, NY 18th District opposes
bullying – doesn’t this seem like a no-brainer?
If you, like me, assumed Congresswoman Lowey
opposed bullying, you would be wrong. Until this past week I did assume
Congresswoman Lowey opposed bullying, bullies and all those who support them. But
this simply is not true.
So why make a point of saying something specifically about
bullying and why now?
I’m about to give you a rare look inside the PR machine that
decided Congresswoman Lowey needed to make a specific statement about bullying
on this specific day.
I’m 15+
year professional communicator and spent 10 years before that in tactical
uniformed service, so I understand how the public relations machine works and I
understand combat.
And make no mistake, much of the communications we receive
from our elected representatives are part of larger political battles we never
see and are never told we’re being drawn in to.
A tremendous amount of thought, effort, money and resources
are invested in crafting these communications to constituents. They are
designed to leave we the people, we the targets, with a very specific take-away
message.
Such is the case with Saturday’s email from Congresswoman
Lowey. The communication is designed to
remind her targets that she is a decent American, just like us, who would never
support a bully’s right to bully other children.
Okay, before I go any further, let me state without any
ambiguity I certainly cannot and do not speak for Congresswoman Lowey. I was
warned in no uncertain terms by Congresswoman Lowey’s Director of
Constituent Services there would be consequences if I attempted to tamper
with the carefully crafted messaging from the Congresswoman.
Also take note I’m neither a Democrat nor a Republican, I
believe in a meritocracy and in the integrity and positions of an INDIVIDUAL,
not the political party they represent.
To be honest, the blind devotion to a particular political party always
struck me as more a communist thing than an American one. But I digress.
Please understand my interpretation, examination and
dissection of Congresswoman Lowey’s message below is based solely on my more
than 25 years combined communications and tactical operations experience along
with specific conversations I had with members of Congresswoman Lowey’s staff
over the last few days.
Before you scroll down to read the note again or for the
first time, take a few minutes as I walk you through what all my experience,
training and personal involvement with Congresswoman Lowey and her stance on
the anti-bullying movement tells me went on behind the scenes and just how this
note found its way to your Inbox on a Saturday evening.
Before we begin the dissection it’s important to take a look
at the whole picture. Any coroner,
fatality investigator, market researcher or combat vet will tell you to examine
the whole as presented before digging around and tearing things apart to look
at how it is assembled.
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First off, at the most basic level the purpose of any
communication is to deliver a message from one person or group to another
person or group. Presumably that
specific message is ultimately in support of a larger business, organizational
or personal goal. Buy my product;
support me in the next election, etc.
In this example Congresswoman Lowey wants her constituents
to know she supports a same-sex marriage
bill currently making its way through our legislative process and is
concerned and engaged with LGBT people in her District and does not tolerate or
support discrimination or bullying.
Notice Congresswoman Lowey specifically calls out her
support for anti-bullying initiatives.
This is a crucial point in the communication as it ultimately turns out
to be in direct contradiction to the position stated to me by her staff earlier
this week and described in detail in this article.
That’s certainly a strong statement to make so, how do I
know the Congresswoman doesn’t support ant--bullying?
On 17 February, 2012 a staff member
attempted to explain the Congresswoman’s position on bullying and those who
support the bullies.
I recently brought an individual named Israel
Kalman, to Congresswoman Lowey’s attention, as not merely a supporter of
bullies but someone who travels our Country giving lectures
and teaching community officials and mental healthcare professionals not to
take a stand against bullying or bullies.
This staff member, who later in the conversation backpedaled
saying she could not speak for the Congresswoman after speaking for nearly half
an hour for the Congresswoman, told me that while she personally did not think
she would approve of Israel Kalman but he had the RIGHT to support bullies and
bullying and that Congresswoman Lowey supported his RIGHT to support bullies
and bullying. She called it free speech.
The staffer proceeded to explain by supporting Mr. Kalman’s
right to lobby our schools, police, medical and other community leaders to
support bullies and the bullying of our children did not mean that
Congresswoman Lowey in any way supported bullying or bullies.
What?
It is fortunate the staffer stated this directly because I
feel that if you support something you support it, if you oppose it then you
oppose it. Perhaps my view of the World
is more limited, simplistic and naïve than the Congresswoman’s because I cannot
follow the logic of her reasoning here.
If you support Mr. Kalman’s right to educate people in our
communities to support the bullies of our children, then you are supporting
those same bullies.
So how do I know any of this? And how did I come to be involved in this
discussion with my local Congresswoman? Fair questions both.
I recently engaged both my own time and my company’s resources in support of the
anti-bullying movement. I learned according to our very own Centers for Disease Control (CDC), some 4,400
kids are dead after tragically taking their own lives directly because of
being bullied. I wanted to help do something, I wanted to save children’s lives
and stop the terror and torture of bullying.
Did you know that fewer Americans were murdered in all the 9/11 terrorist attacks,
than children die from being terrorized and tortured by bullies. I do now and I will help make my community a
better and safer place for all children.
Imagine my surprise as I looked for support from local
politicians, including Senator
Gillibrand, Congresswoman Lowey and Assemblyman
Castelli, to simply take a public stand against bullying and those who
support bullying. So far Senator
Gillibrand has managed to remain silernt and detached while Assemblyman
Castelli’s staff is looking into Mr. Kalman and his lecture series.
Shockingly though, Congresswoman Lowey’s aid told me that
Mr. Kalman’s right to support bullies is more important to the Congresswoman
than our children’s right to be safe in
our own neighborhoods. Again, it’s a
freedom of speech thing, she embarrassingly explained and the Congresswoman’s
hands were pretty much tied by the First
Amendment.
I had no idea Congresswoman had such a fundamentalist view
of our Constitution and was such a staunch defender of freedom of speech.
So I did some checking and found the Congresswoman condemned
talk show host Jimmy
Fallon’s choice of introduction music for Michele Bachmann’s appearance last year
on 21 November, 2011.
The Congresswoman
said, “The choice of song to introduce Michele Bachmann on ‘Late Night With
Jimmy Fallon’ last night was insulting and inappropriate,” and went on to add, “I
do not share Michele Bachmann’s politics, but she deserves to be treated with
respect. No female politician — and no woman — should be subjected to sexist
and offensive innuendo like she was last night.” Damn well, said Congresswoman and well done
and I agree. The Congresswoman further called on Fallon’s to publically
apologize for the hurt and harm they caused Representative Bachman and all
women.
The question burns as to why Congresswoman Lowey suddenly
decides that Kalman’s preaching and education to support those who bully our
children to death falls should be protected under freedom of speech and yet
Fallon’s band is not entitled to the same protection in the Congresswoman’s
opinion.
You be the judge; if protecting our children from bullies
who directly cause them to take their own lives is at least as important as
playing a few seconds of an offensive song to grown and powerful political
adult.
To me it is the same as arguing that Osama bin Laden’s right
to preach hatred against Americans and Israel and train others to this
philosophy who ultimately kill innocent people, which is exactly what Mr.
Kalman does, is more important than our
right to live in safety and without fear of terrorist attacks. Whether they
come from Al Qaeda or the local bully; terror is terror, hurt is hurt and 4,400
dead kids and 2,752 dead Americans on 9/11 are still dead.
I’ll be the first to admit I can be aggressive when pursuing
a goal on behalf of a client and I cannot think of more deserving clients then our
kids or a better cause than preventing children from killing themselves – but I
never expected to be threatened by my own Congresswoman’s staff simply for
asking her to say bullying is wrong and supporting bullying is wrong.
All I ask of the Congresswoman is to put a link on her
Website or Re-Tweet or share on Facebook that she stands against bullies and
Israel Kalman who comes into our communities preaching his support for bullies.
In the same way she proactively spoke out against the bullying of Bachman by
Fallon’s band. It’s a form or terrorism
against our kids that kills them. Israel
Kalman’s teachings are no different than any other terrorists’ they kill even
if not by their own hands.
Osama bin Laden didn’t kill any Americans on 9/11; but for
years dedicated his life traveling World and teaching terror, supporting the
terrorists and training people to be terrorists and terrorist supporters, just
as Israel Kalman does in our communities.
And on 11
May, 2011 the heroes of SEAL Team VI shot bin Laden dead on the direct
orders of President Obama. Hooyah! God bless our Navy SEALS.
I asked Congresswoman Lowey’s staffer how a person can
support another person’s right to be a terrorist supporter and yet claim they
are not supporting the terrorist themselves.
For example let’s say Congresswoman Lowey argued Americans have
the right to donate money and weapons to Al Qaeda or the Taliban because it’s a
form of freedom of expression. And at the same time claim she cares about
protecting America
from terrorism and does not support terrorists or terrorism.
That seems to be the Congresswoman’s argument. Frankly I
find it more than a little hard to swallow.
Well fortunately Congresswoman Lowey’s aid informed me she
is an expert on First
Amendment issues and provided an example that would clear the whole
misunderstanding up and clarify how supporting a terrorist supporter is not the
same as supporting the terrorist themselves.
I can hardly wait, I thought.
The example the staffer, an expert, in First Amendment
issues choose to provide went something like this.
Many years ago the Ku Klux Klan decided to march in and
carry out KKK operations (whatever these may entail) in a predominately Jewish
American community. The ACLU defended
the Klan’s right to carry out operations and their right spread hate and this
is really what the Congresswoman was doing here with regard to bullies and
those who support them.
Huh?
So in this example is Congresswoman Lowey a member of the
KKK or one of those who defended the Klan’s right to promote genocide against
Jewish, African and myriad other Americans. Either way it seems like the
Congresswoman is on the wrong side of what’s right and decent.
In light of the KKK loving, Jewish genocide supporting
example chosen by Congresswoman Lowey’s aid; I pointed out to the expert the
KKK was declared a terrorist organization by the Civil
Rights Act of 1871 also known as the KKK Act which made the organization
illegal precisely because they promoted hatred against people which all too
often resulted in real terror and death.
When I told the staffer she had really proven my point, that
supporting those who support terror, torture, bullying or genocide IS the same
as supporting terror, torture, bullying and genocide and, I thought most other
Americans would probably see it the same way I do, she became flustered and
threatening.
I further told her I planned on continuing to proactively
look for support against the bullying of our children through articles
like this one and see if national news organizations would also see it the
way I do, I was told to wait for Congresswoman Lowey’s PR Machine to craft a
specific response and clarify her position on her support of terrorism against
our kids.
Okay, now read the communication below from Congresswoman
Lowey’s office. And decide for yourself how and why this specific message was
targeted to you at this specific time. Telling
you she does not support bullies.
Dear Friend,
I recently met
with representatives from the LGBT community in the Lower Hudson
Valley to discuss the
repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and anti-bullying campaigns for
gay and lesbian youth.
Discrimination
and hate have no place in our community. Unfortunately, LGBT students and
their families have limited resources to fight discrimination and hate in
schools. I am proud to have cosponsored H.R. 998, the Student
Non-Discrimination Act, which would provide recourse for students who are
victims of discrimination based on gender identity and sexual
orientation.
In
addition, I am proud to be a cosponsor of H.R. 1116, the Respect for Marriage
Act, which would repeal DOMA and provide equal rights for gay and lesbian
couples under federal law. I strongly believe that individuals should be
allowed to marry whom they choose, regardless of gender, and should receive all
rights available to other couples.
I
look forward to continuing the conversation with members of the LGBT community
to ensure that all individuals have the opportunity to fully participate in
every aspect of our society.
As always, please do
not hesitate to contact my office at www.lowey.house.gov
if I can ever be of assistance. If you do not already receive my regular
electronic newsletter, News from Nita, I hope you will click YES
and SUBMIT in the box to the left to subscribe.Sincerely,
Nita Lowey
Member of Congress
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